Every challenge a person goes through is beneficial for their development and growth. In that moment of difficulty that person might assume many reasons for what is happening to them. Once that person has owned up to their faults, the emotions have settled, and the pain subsided the real reason is revealed.
Some people can't handle that process and try to distract themselves from the issue and therefore never learn a lesson, or process that experience. This is extremely unhealthy. I guess depending on the severity and the length of that challenge the longer you need to process it.
I see many people who live their lives who believe they don't have any issues but their actions speak louder than words. Alcohol, illegal/perscription drugs, pornography, cigaretes, and food are not solutions. These things only make more problems and after a while you notice your life is out of control and wonder why?!
Don't run away from problems, embrace them, learn to work through them. And watch yourself grow!
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