No pain no gain that is my motto!

The reality is everyone has pain in their life some a little some a lot. It never stops coming. Some people avoid dealing with it while others look at how this pain can bring them gain. As you navigate through life you have to learn to deal with all kinds of things especially difficulties in your life that cause you pain, whether it’s physical pain, emotional pain, financial pain, or familial pain, we all experience have it. If people accept pain as part of life and learn to work through it,  their lives will become a lot more enjoyable. People who avoid dealing with it ultimately find ways to numb that pain either with drugs, food, television, video games, or shopping.

I’ve met people who constantly complain about things nonstop but never do anything to improve their circumstance. Instead of finding solutions, or working towards improving their situation they just look for someone to blame, becoming a victim.  It takes an effort to deal with a circumstance that’s causing you pain but if it could improve your life wouldn’t you make that effort? Nothing good comes for free! You truly have to work at improving your life and solving problems that cause you pain!

I went through lots of pain as a child! I never blamed the people who caused me that horrible pain. I look back now and so thankful for that hardship because it made me the person that I am today.

Some people make excuses as to why their circumstances can’t be changed.  They blame others for not having a better life a better house, a better family, better health…etc.  If you want to improve your life, look within and stop looking for someone to blame for your suffering. Being a victim never solved anything.  Start turning the tide by accepting you are in control and take positive steps to change what is causing you pain.